Newport, N.C.

June 22, 2020


Our elderly population residing in long-term care facilities have become the “Forgotten Ones.” These facilities have been under quarantine for over 100 days and families haven’t seen their loved ones other than by electronic devices, maybe a window if they are lucky.

Families have become fragmented by this virus. Spouses separated from each other, children from their parents, grand-children from grandparents, friends from orphaned elders, and so on. Many of these residents thrive on the social interaction they receive from family and friends. The contact with loved ones can improve or maintain cognitive function as well as activities of daily living. Many of our elderly are regressing without the stimulation and encouragement they once received.

Many articles that are currently circulating, discuss the negative impacts of visitor restriction in long-term care facilities. Suicidal ideations are also a major concern among the elderly. A June article from The New York Times states, “Such so-called “failed suicides” turn out to be the most extreme cases of a rapidly growing phenomenon among older Americans as a results of Covid-19: lives stripped of human contact, meaningful activity, purpose and hope that things will get better in a time frame that is relevant to people in the last decades or years of life.” (Aronson, Louise. “For Older People, Despair, as Well as Covid-19, Is Costing Lives.” The New York Times, 8 June 2020 Op-ed.)

There are also reported incidences of elder abuse taking place by facility workers. (S. Duke Han, Laura Mosqueda. “Elder Abuse in the COVID-19 Era.” Journal of American Geriatrics Society, 20, April, 2020.)

Many businesses have now been given the go ahead to partially reopen with new rules and regulations but there’s been no plan to reopen long-term care facilities for families and friends. Where’s the urgency of opening these facilities? There are regulatory agencies who have been involved in opening up other businesses but no agencies have been instrumental in opening long-term care residences. No state-run agencies have gone into long term care facilities to implement a plan on how to reopen these facilities.

As independent patient advocates, we know firsthand couples, families and friends who have been unable to visit with their loved ones for over 100 days. Families are losing their loved ones without even being able to say good bye in person or hold their hand and not let them die alone.

This needs to be addressed on a statewide level and we must stand up and advocate for our elderly and not let them be collateral damage and an acceptable loss during this pandemic.

There are solutions to opening the long-term care facilities back up and letting us see our loved ones. Visitors can be screened by a simple short questionnaire on having signs or symptoms and a quick temperature check. Use of Personal Protective Equipment in these facilities can be used effectively as used in acute care and other businesses in our state. Plans and priorities can be put in place to safely reopen. Most every long-term care facility contains an out-side sitting area and a large meeting room indoors. These areas can be designated as visitation areas. Using the specific mapping of each organization, different areas of the facilities can have separate short visitation periods for each day of the week, etc. Opportunities to visit can be managed safely and large crowds can be avoided. No long-term care facility is a closed system, staff are in and out of these facilities in staggering numbers.

It is understandable that residents of these facilities are at a higher risk due to age and underlying conditions and that stricter regulations are needed, but there are ways to help remedy the loneliness and isolation of our elderly in long-term care and their loved ones.

COVID-19 is here for the long haul; no one can guarantee a vaccine yet with outlooks for a sustainable vaccine for the public to be at least 12 months away. Let’s work together to improve the mental status of our seniors, put smiles back on their faces and warmth in their hearts.



Owners of Whitley Patient Advocates

(5) comments


There is no question that seniors in nursing homes, as well as those seniors living at home, are impacted severely by the restrictions imposed due to the virus. Many of us have loved ones living under such conditions.

Our medical experts have provided guidelines on how we can control the spread of the virus. Guidelines that are not only restrictive but seem almost cruel to some of us. But we must all do our best, seniors included, to help get us through this crises. Some like the editor of this paper and other self serving individuals, criticize our governor for not lifting restrictions earlier than the guidelines recommend.

But even under the current restrictions, today's report indicate that North Carolina reflects a 15% increase in cases recently, while our neighboring state to the south has a 17% increase and Georgia a 30% increase in cases. The battle is not over. In some respects it looks like it has just begun.

We must all tough it out, sacrifice, as difficult as it may be, because in reality, if we honestly look at the situation, and put aside our personal grievances , we have no other choice.

David Collins

Yeah , kind of locked into this situation we are . Can you imagine if this drags on into years . Suicides are up due to despondency and depression. Same thing . In my comings and goings have noticed that folks avoid looking you in the eyes any more .


Sad to say, but many elderly in nursing homes were forgotten, abused and neglected long before COVID-19. Bedsores, MRSA, Sepsis, no attention to personal care and hygiene, their food left on carts while staff walked while knowing that senior required assistance to eat, (literally starving them) are just some of the things our elderly in nursing homes endure. Some never received kind words, a smile or a visit. They were left to stare blankly up to the ceiling all day while lying in their feces and urine, hoping their Maker would soon come. It seems, if no family or friends can visit, at least someone from Social Services could use PPE, visit, brighten their day and make sure they're being properly cared for. Better yet, perhaps families should consider taking care of their own at home like it was done years ago. There has to be a solution.


With increased testing it was predictable that number of cases would increase. Instead of focusing on case number, we should focus on recovery rates, and mortality rates vs. case number. Thus, we will have an idea of the real danger relative to other common death causes. The raw case number is what everyone focuses on, and it is a red herring at best. But it does engender hysteria and all things government and anti-freedom.


Increased testing has revealed more cases. Percentages of positives has increased as has hospitalization numbers.

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